"A wedding is so expensive! That's just why I'm not gonna get marry until I feel secure and ready about the budgetary. Well, you know, you don't wanna be broke just after one wedding, right?", then the girl winked at me.
Ah dear, those kind of perspective wont get you anywhere. You'll get stuck in your little comfort world, maybe for the rest of your life. And I'm not just talking about the wedding.
To have a perfect wedding might be one of every girl wishes for since they were just a pre-teen. In my case, I always dreamed about how spectacular my wedding's gonna be in green! Well, but sometimes, when you get older, there are billions things you find out more important than just one beautiful day. I didn't get the wedding of my dream, since we didn't save up so much for the receptions, but still I got me the great marriage life :mrgreen:
Unfortunately, most of Indonesian still thinks that the receptions should held as magnificent as possible. Not everyone get the thought that its just not the core of the wedding itself. As in my girl above case, her family want a very big wedding, but they just don't think that's something nice to give their share of the spending. Preparing a daughter's wedding fund is not a very common thing here in Indonesia.
But hey, if you really think that you gotta have that GREAT WEDDING EVER, there's a lot of trick to minimize the spending. Maybe you can start from cutting the budget for Photography and Invitation at your wedding by learning from this article. What? But those two are the most important things to be prepared for a perfect wedding? Guess what, darlene, its not that hard :)
You're about to see that is not that expensive to get a beautiful yet not so expensive pictures of you Wedding Day, and how to make a catchy invitation that will lead the guess properly. Haven't thought about it yet? You better start if you really want to have that Dreamy Day :mrgreen:
After all, we all want it to be once in a lifetime to the happily ever after, rite? :)